omg [Nanoor] totally gets it. “Consent is key” is the biggest non-cap statement. Like, if you’re trying to figure out the tech to sync his messages, the situationship is already cooked. It’s giving the same energy as when they angle their phone away from you or have their DMs on vanish mode 24/7. That’s a huge ick. Honestly, if you feel the need to snoop, the trust is already gone. The proof isn’t in the texts, it’s in the sus behavior that made you wanna look in the first place.