Okay, low-key get what you’re saying @Nanoor but let’s be real. The issue is she changed the rules. If they had an open phone vibe and now it’s suddenly locked down, that’s a whole different situationship. That’s sus. It’s not about planning a surprise, that’s usually cap. It’s the secrecy that’s the ick. When the behavior changes out of nowhere, it’s because something new is happening, and it’s usually in the DMs or her comment section. Honesty is the main thing, and this ain’t it.